refactor: Extract apply and update status steps

[adwk67]

Description

This PR covers the following:

• extracts apply and update_status steps
• moves secret creation to the apply step

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[adwk67]

This - build_discovery_config_map - is a build step, but it cannot live in the "actual" step (due to dependencies) but neither is it really part of apply, so I've left it here.

[adwk67]

This will be covered by our TODO item:

Address the race condition for discovery config maps: see HDFS, Hive, Kafka

[adwk67]

See: 24908e6
The listeners are not created by the operator but are needed to create the discovery config map. The listeners are watched so that complete listener data triggers a reconcile.

[adwk67]

Re-tested:

--- PASS: kuttl (1052.01s)
    --- PASS: kuttl/harness (0.00s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.4_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-cluster-internal_openshift-false (150.36s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.5_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-cluster-internal_openshift-false (616.86s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.5_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-external-unstable_openshift-false (140.38s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.4_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-external-unstable_openshift-false (144.40s)
PASS

[adwk67]

--- PASS: kuttl (741.03s)
    --- PASS: kuttl/harness (0.00s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.4_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-cluster-internal_openshift-false (327.98s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.4_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-external-unstable_openshift-false (159.48s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.5_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-external-unstable_openshift-false (184.41s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/smoke_hadoop-3.5.0_zookeeper-3.9.5_zookeeper-latest-3.9.5_number-of-datanodes-2_datanode-pvcs-2hdd-1ssd_listener-class-cluster-internal_openshift-false (741.02s)
PASS