fix: add json_to_map control char parse config

[zhangxffff]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: related to #672

Type of Change

• 🐛 Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• ✨ New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• 🚀 Performance improvement (optimization)
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• 🔨 Refactoring (no logic changes)
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• 📝 Documentation only

Description

in PR #674, we align the behavior of unescaped control chars like '\n' in json with hive udf implement, however, this need an extra parse to handle the control chars. so we add a new json_to_map_escape_control_chars config to control whether we handle control chars.

when json_to_map_escape_control_chars is true, json_to_map would handle control chars and return valid map.

when json_to_map_escape_control_chars is false, json_to_map would return null when json contains unescaped control chars

Performance Impact

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Release Note

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Release Note:

Release Note:
- Fixed a crash in `substr` when input is null.
- optimized `group by` performance by 20%.

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